How travel changed my life!

Miami Beach Spring Break

So there I was March 2007, my first adult trip and first flight ever at the age of 21. I had recently broken up with a long term boyfriend about 6 months prior and badly needed to get out to have fun. Plus I was graduating from college in just 8 weeks. So many things to celebrate and so much hope for the perfect vacation was ahead.


Was the destination. I swear to God I cannot recall how I landed on South Beach Miami as my final destination with my measly Hooter’s girl budget but I was clearly lead there and I’m so glad I went.

I borrowed luggage from my dad and packed all the cute club clothes and sunglasses I stashed away for that very moment.

Here was my list of Miami packing essentials:

> swim suit

> party clothes, chill clothes

> flip flops

> beach towel

> sunglasses

> hygiene/health items (lotion, soap,vitamins, etc.)

> bikini wax

> hair

> nails

> eyelashes

> swim suit

> sunscreen

I made an appointment and had my first full Brazilian wax ever. That changed my life! So it’s safe to say travel changed my life before the trip even began. (Sidenote: I never felt more confident in a bikini.)

Packed, cute and ready to roll I headed to the airport bright & early.

Arriving at the airport was so intimidating but I knew it wasn’t impossible. I had printed out a list of airport must do’s and checked them all. Luggage weight, ID, more airport things to follow here.

Though I had never took a flight I’ve always been an expectation setter and follower so I left nothing to chance… follow your airline rules it’s not worth the stress!

Ok back to my trip. So I went through TSA without a hitch. The plane was exactly how I pictured it and the ride was smoother than I imagined.

We arrived and the main thing I remembered were the palm trees so beautiful, so scenic and so Miami.

The welcome to Miami sign made my whole life in that moment. It was so late when we arrived but Miami was just getting started. The Cuban cafe downstairs from our hotel was bumping. We did what any 21 year olds would do and checked in, then immediately went to the liquor store to pregame.

We got dressed then headed out on the night. We partied sensibly every night and beached out daily. It was exactly what the doctor ordered.

Then my life was changed. Forever.

My friend was addressed in a pretty flamboyant manner by a young man and I awaited her completion of this exaggerated encounter. While doing so the friend of the young man or his wingman as they’re called addressed me.

I will forever remember the place and date. It was in front of the beautiful Lowe Hotel on March 5, 2007. Where I met my now husband of nearly 8 years and father of my 2 daughters.


The encounter was boldly candid we had nothing to lose so nothing was exaggerated. We were 2 people trying to get to our next destination while being nice to our friends and God willing we found more conversation later that night, the next day and the day after that. I don’t believe there’s been a day we haven’t spoke since.

I say all that to say. You never know where travel can take you. My first flight EVER literally landed me on a flight every week from Michigan to Florida for 6 months while dating long-distance. So essentially my first flight took me to meet an amazing husband, 2 beautiful girls and a life I now lead in Boca Raton, FL.

Due to how my husband and I met we have an element of spontaneity and a hunger for travel that’s woven into the fabric of our relationship.

Your travel can find you love or return you home to reconnect with a love that’s lost, or even better it may lead you to a greater love of self.
Who knows?

Here’s one of my favorite quotes that reminds we that there is so much more to see, so many people to meet and so much love to give.

I’m in love with cities I’ve never been
and people I’ve never met.

– Melody Truong

Point is… when you travel you open your life up to endless possibilities. You open your mind up to new ideas and you free your dreams of boundaries.

Changing your life can really be that simple.

Step #1 take more trips.

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List of Travel Essentials

It takes much time to pack your travel bag properly if you don’t know the ultimate list of travel essentials for a carry-on bag. No matter whether you are packing a wheeled bag, backpack or a tote bag, this article will offer a list of ultimate must-packs for women.

Remember this travel essentials’ list as it will work like a tool for telling you what you need on your trip. With these travel essentials, you’ll be ready for everything your trip throws at you. So, let’s dive in!

1. Accessories and Bags- If you’re wearing casual clothes, good accessories can make a big difference. They will add grace to an outfit and make you stand out from the crowd. You should pack bags, scarves, watches, jewelry, and sunglasses for your trip to look stylish.

2.Clothing- If you’re planning for a trip, you must pack t-shirts, shirts, cardigan, sweater, lightweight jacket, jeans, skirts, leggings, and socks. Depending on what you
are planning, choose a more elegant outfit.

3.Rose Water Spray- Staying fresh on a long trip can be a little tricky. Don’t forget to pack your rosewater spray to have a dewy fresh face look and feel. Rosewater is perfect for soothing, hydrating and reducing bacteria on the skin.

4. Thayers Alcohol-Free Cucumber Witch Hazel Toner Facial Mist- Thayers Alcohol-Free Cucumber Witch Hazel Toner Facial Mist- Make your skin look younger and beautiful with this face toner. The organic ingredients in facial toner helps eliminate clogged pores and reduce dark circles and scars.

5. First Aid Beauty Ultra Repair Tinted Moisturizer- Formulated with vitamin E, hyaluronic acid and other nourishing ingredients, First Aid Beauty Ultra Repair Tinted Moisturizer gives soothing hydration and broad-spectrum SPF 30 to the skin. Hydrate your skin with this tinted moisturizer!

6. PROcure Hydrocortisone Cream + Calendula- Formulated with natural ingredients like Calendula, Arnica Montana, Epsom Salt, Aloe vera, Coconut oil & Olive oil, PROcure Hydrocortisone Cream + Calendula promotes healing of cuts, burns, reduces inflammation and repairs the skin.

7. Toiletries- Besides the clothing and all important stuff, you’ll also need self-care toiletries. It is recommended to bring a toothbrush, hair products, deodorant, hand sanitizer, blow dryer, quick-dry towel, prescription medicine, and a few painkillers.

8. Travel Wipes – Catching any kind of ailment on the plane can severely spoil your trip. So, you should not take the risk. Disinfect your tray table, seat and everything else you will touch on the flight using hygiene travels wipes which will kill many bacteria and viruses.

9. Sunscreen – Wearing sunscreen on your face is a must when you are traveling. And you must apply it in flight as well, particularly in case you are sitting in the window seat. You can get harmed by the UV rays of the altitude. Use a sunscreen which is chemical-free and features a skin-softening structure also. Choose something which is scentless, matte, and lightweight.

10. Lip Balm – Instead of lipstick, it is good to pack a moisturizing lip balm. Don’t forget your lip balm to keep your lips hydrated and free from chapping throughout the flight.

11. Compression Socks or Tights – In case you will be sitting in a flight seat for a long, i.e. more than 4 hours, you need to change the pair of compression socks or tights for supporting blood circulation in your legs. This prevents blood clots which is a serious symptom of sitting for a long and keeps your feet from falling asleep.

12. Footwear – When it comes to packing active footwear for your trip, choose the right style for the activities you want to enjoy during your trip. Don’t forget to pack durable waterproof hiking boots to enjoy running or biking.

13. Foldable Duffel – In case you are carrying all your carry-on travel essentials in a small handbag, you certainly need to carry packable, lightweight duffel on hand to tote with other essentials you are thinking to carry during your trip.

14. Just-in-case Travel Kit – Instead of keeping stain removers, safety pins, wet wipes etc. separately, Just-in-case Travel Kit is a must-have while traveling. Just order the one to pack for your long trip!

Remember the above-mentioned list whenever you pack your bag for a domestic or international trip.

How to Plan a Road Trip


With the holidays near an affordable alternative to flying is to take a Road Trip! 

Although road trips do take more time getting to a destination compared to flying, road trips hold an intimacy that flying just can’t match.  Road trips allow flexibility in where you go, who you can take along, and what memories you can make on the way. 

Basically road trips rule out most of your travel excuses: travel cost too much, I decided last minute, I don’t have enough vacation days, not sure where to go and the list goes on. 

Road trips allow you the flexibility to drive one major or small city over for 2 nights if choose. Who said adventures only take places thousands of miles away? I have had some pretty great trips within 200 miles from my home. That’s less a 2.5-hour drive.  

I particularly find road trips convenient for family travel whether that’s a larger group of people on varying budgets or toddlers in tow.

Here are my must-do tips for planning road trips that I use often and I plan to use for my road trip to Alabama this week: 

Must-do tips for planning road trips

  1. Rent a car if your car is unreliable. Nothing is worse than being stuck on the side of the road when you should be relaxing. Priceline has pretty low prices starting at $10.95 per day for a rental car. 
  2. Double check your credit card perks for free insurance for the rental. Save that $60 at the rental car pick up desk by booking your rental with a credit card that covers rental insurance. Just call the 800 number on the back of your credit card and ask about your rental insurance perks then use that card to book at Priceline or another online rental booking provider. Then kindly turn down the insurance at the check-in desk. 
  3. Clean the car! Rental or not, we sanitize every inch of the car and clean it to ensure maximum comfort on the road. 
  4. Double check the oil, tires, windshield wipers and outlets for charging devices. 
  5. Check that all tire changing essentials are in the vehicle.  
  6. Bring a real map. I know it’s 2018 but strange things have happened in 2018. One can never be too safe or sure most rest stops have maps just pick one up in route. 
  7. Use GPS with caution know that they are not always accurate the usual Google Maps and Waze are idea here. 
  8. Do use the Google or Waze traffic predictor to avoid traffic rushes if you have a specific destination in mind. 
  9. Preload your phone or iPad with movies, music, subscriptions, audio books and of course podcast!
  10. Pack wholesome snacks. Junk food sounds like a good idea for the first hour then it’s all bad. Fuel up wisely to keep up the energy and momentum. 
  11. Pack light. Save space and gas.
  12. Get off on exits with multiple gas stations or use a gas station app for the best prices. A couple of my favorites are Waze and Gas Buddy
  13. Plan lodging at least roughly. Have an idea of what is available in the area your routing to and you should also look into availability. Hotel Tonight is a cool app for last minute bookings.

14. Do stop to smell the roses. The whole point of a road trip is seeing new and cool things. Stop and explore. 

Have an cool road trip resource or story? Please share in the comments.

Until Next Week… Enjoy your Thanksgiving and as always.

Design a Life You Love,


Listen to the How to Plan a Road Trip Podcast